All posts by Gerard McLean

I never got your email

It is deadline time for one of our tournaments and the person in charge of applications sent out a broadcast email to all the teams that have yet to pay the application fee. The message was essentially; ‘pay your fees or we will not consider your team.’ Since they are overbooked in all divisions, the leverage was easy to apply.

Within minutes, a flood of email responses came in. I just sent the check, My club treasurer is sending it today, Please don’t cut us, the check was sent yesterday, I’ll FedEx you the check, etc, etc. This continued pretty much all day, with a bubble of emails coming in over lunch. I suspect more will come in tonight when people get home.

What amazes me is that this is the same audience, when asked to do something via email, like fax in their rosters or confirm their hotel rooming lists, will claim with absolute certainty that they never got your email and it is your fault they were not able to comply within the deadline.

Our advice: When the referee blows the whistle, you don’t get another five minutes to attempt a goal. Everyone is busy, but don’t take excuses. Teams that are organized and comply by the deadline are a pleasure to have at your tournament. Make your appreciation known. Write the coach of the team manager a personal note, thanking them for their organization and respecting your deadlines. Keep this up year after year and pretty soon, you may never have to deal with those teams that suck the energy away from you and your staff.

On the other side, when you do have teams apply who consistently pay late, who demand special hotel treatment, who never show up prepared to register, who ask for early morning registration… turn them away early. Let them know specifically why you are turning them away.

Don’t let teams rob you of your energy and time. You need every precious drop of both to run a soccer tournament as it is.

Emailing on Monday morning

It’s Monday morning between 5:00am and 9:00am and every newsletter I have subscribed to, new tournament listings emails, etc., etc., are now flying into my email inbox. Since I have also received lots from spam from the night before, my inbox is quite full. In addition to that, I have three project deadlines and a conference call. After all, I’ve had a whole weekend away from the office!

In short, I don’t have time to read the newsletters, even though I’m almost fairly certain that they contain things that would be valuable to me. But, I don’t have time and I just delete them.

Our Advice: Do not send critical emails about your tournament on Sunday night! Most will end up caught in the I don’t have time for this net most of us struggle with on Monday morning. Monday evening, or Tuesday-Thursday mornings are much better times to send email that you would like acted on quickly or that you would like people to read and save.

Coach walks on the sunny side of life

20060903ebrightCENTERVILLE – Scott Ebright has cancer. But that doesn’t appear to slow him down or stop him from seeing the sunny side of life, even in the rain.

“The good thing about being bald,” Ebright chuckles as he wipes his head, “is the rain doesn’t drip off my hair into my eyes.”

A gentle man with an ever-present twinkle in his eyes and a grin on his face, Ebright, 43, is the coach for the Metro FC Renegades boys U13 team. He has been coaching soccer for the past eleven years, is a licensed referee and also helps assign games for the Dayton Area Soccer Officials Association (DASOA).

Ebright was diagnosed with cancer first in 2002, again in 2005 and again in February of this year. Each time, he went through treatment and was pronounced ‘cured’. He is scheduled for another round of chemotherapy this coming week, but uses Internet-based training videos, a strong assistant coaching staff and very supportive parents to stay connected to his team.

“My first concern was about the time I may not have to coach my kids,” Ebright said. When he found out his cancer returned, he sent an email to his parents with his diagnoses. Immediately, he received back overwhelming support that he remain their coach. From the admiration and respect the parents and players show him, it is clear that they made the right choice.

“If I have learned anything from this experience, is that it is ultimately all about the relationships we have with other people. People are what matters most and we should treat each other with kindness and respect.”

Then his eyes twinkled and he broke out into a grin again. Ebright just couldn’t stay serious for long as he joked about his health and the interview.

“I forgot to study for this interview,” he joked. “I hope I passed!”

To check out Ebright’s team and all the games of the 27th Mead CUSA Cup soccer tournament in real-time, go on-line at www.cusasoccer1.com.

PHOTO: Ebright gives a post-game analysis to his team after their second game on Saturday. The Metro FC team tied against PASA 3-3.